How to kill your mother in law – Attitude

A long time ago in China , a girl named Li-Li got married & went to live with her husband and mother-in-law. In a very short time, Li-Li found that she couldn’t get along with her mother-in-law at all.
Their personalities were very different, and Li-Li was angered by many of her mother-in-law’ s habits. In addition, she criticized Li-Li constantly.
Days passed, and weeks passed. Li-Li and her mother-in-law never stopped arguing and fighting.
But what made the situation even worse was that, according to ancient Chinese tradition, Li-Li had to bow to her mother-in-law and obey her every wish. All the anger and unhappiness in the house was causing Li-Li’s poor husband! D great distress.
Finally, Li-Li could not stand her mother-in-! law’s bad temper and dictatorship any longer, and she decided to do something about it! Li-Li went to see her father’s good friend, Mr. Huang, who sold herbs.
She told him the situation and asked if he would give her some poison so that she could solve the problem once and for all.
Mr. Huang thought for awhile, and finally said, “Li-Li, I will help you solve your problem, but you must listen to me and obey what I tell you.”
Li-Li said, “Yes, Mr. Huang, I will do whatever you tell me to do.”Mr. Huang went into the back room, and returned in a few minutes with a package of herbs. He told Li-Li, “You can’t use a quick-acting poison to get rid of your mother-in-law, because that would cause people to become suspicious Therefore, I have given you a number of herbs that will slowly build up poison in her body. Every other day prepare some delicious meal and put a little of these herbs in her serving.
Now, in order to make sure that nobody suspect you, when she dies, you must be very careful to act very friendly towards her. “Don’t argue with her, obey her every wish, and treat her like a queen.” Li-Li was so happy.
She thanked Mr. Huang and hurried home to start her plot of murdering her mother-in-law.
Weeks went by, and months went by, and every other day, Li-Li served the specially treated food to her mother-in-law. She remembered what Mr. Huang had said about avoiding suspicion, so she controlled her temper, obeyed her mother-in-law, and treated her like her own mother.
After six months had passed, the whole household had changed. Li-Li had practiced controlling her temper so much that she found that she almost never got mad or upset. She hadn’t had an argument with her mother-in-law in six months because she now seemed much kinder and easier to get along with.
The mother-in-law’ s attitude toward Li-Li changed, and she began to love Li-Li like her own daughter. She kept telling friends and relatives that Li-Li was the best daughter-in- law one could ever find. Li-Li and her mother-in-law were now treating each other like a real mother and daughter.
Li-Li’s husband was very happy to see what was happening. One day, Li-Li came to see Mr. Huang and asked for his help again She said, “Dear Mr. Huang, please help me to keep the poison from killing my mother-in-law. She’s changed into such a nice woman, and I love her like my own mother. I do not want her to die because of the poison I gave her.”
Mr. Huang smiled and nodded his head. “Li-Li, there’s nothing to worry about. I never gave you any poison. The herbs I gave you were vitamins to improve her health. The only poison was in your mind and your attitude toward her, but that has been all washed away by the love which you gave to her.”
HAVE YOU REALIZED that how you treat others is exactly how they will treat you? There is a wise Chinese saying: “The person who loves others will also be loved in return.” God might be trying to work in another person’s life through you. Send this to your friends and spread the POWER OF LOVE.


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24 Responses to How to kill your mother in law – Attitude

  1. Bahareh November 24, 2011 at 12:21 PM #

    wtf ? waste of time couldnt even find a proper technique

  2. Sadiq Sheriff July 24, 2011 at 5:05 PM #

    Really marvellous, Mr. Huang, really a good teacher

  3. Rafia Muqeem May 17, 2011 at 11:56 AM #

    Its true…….

  4. Nagappa May 14, 2011 at 12:58 PM #

    really love story!

  5. Anonymous May 13, 2011 at 7:24 PM #

    great storyyyyy! 

  6. Riyas Pallikere July 10, 2010 at 2:21 PM #

    The love is begans from our heart…? It may created by our doings…

  7. waqas July 1, 2010 at 1:24 PM #

    a great message for all mothers in law and daughters in law.

  8. Musa abdullahi kabo June 19, 2010 at 8:06 PM #

    Very fantastic&educative.

  9. fahim May 18, 2010 at 6:18 PM #

    AOA this is one of the nice story i ever hered.

  10. Abdul Rashid April 27, 2010 at 2:24 PM #


  11. shajahan.nk April 26, 2010 at 1:50 PM #

    very nice,this vl b a gud msg to everyone,especially to all mother in law&daughetr in law,if this vl happened this vl b beneficial to all husbands,bcos i am also fear like this situation.

  12. suleiman April 10, 2010 at 2:24 AM #

    wonderful story, applicable to both married and would be couples for happy maried Life.

  13. Sheraz April 9, 2010 at 3:10 PM #

    very nice story, as love is fatal, and when a person gives love to another person, he or she find love in his/ her return. so spread love every where.

  14. Naseem Faooqi April 8, 2010 at 2:38 PM #

    very lessonable stroy but very difficult to follow need extra ordinerry patience

  15. Sarfraz April 5, 2010 at 4:56 PM #

    Wonderful story and a very good recipie to household peace of almost all homes.

  16. Shehu madaki April 4, 2010 at 2:32 PM #

    A nice piece of story, if applied by all the world wld be a better place for us.

  17. Alkali Uba April 2, 2010 at 1:04 PM #

    What an elder can see sitting down can’t be seen by the young no matter how tall standing. Nice piece to think about.

    • Bakhtiark8 June 3, 2011 at 4:22 PM #

      ok dear  ur  rite

  18. Saleem Ather April 2, 2010 at 11:02 AM #

    Nice story. May be applicable for many.
    But not to people with false pride of being wealthy. They keep on hating shouting, disgracing others and making the life miserable. The only solution is to keep quiet or wait for good time when God changes the scenario

  19. Babar April 2, 2010 at 10:04 AM #

    Dear All,
    That was a Chinese story, meant only for the Chinese….you dare try to tell this story to sub-continent mother-in-laws and daugther-in-laws…they will certianly beat the hell out of you for plotting friendship between them.

  20. amal ibrahim April 1, 2010 at 4:47 PM #

    beautiful stories and sayings…i wana read them all…

  21. SYED Javeed March 31, 2010 at 5:11 PM #

    How True, what you get is what you give. Only when you give, you will get. So give love to get love.

  22. Touqeer ahmad March 26, 2010 at 12:07 AM #

    its very nice moral story.i whould like it very much.

  23. Mohamed Bahgat March 18, 2010 at 5:00 PM #

    Love is a pure relation have no needs or some things to come in according to what love let us made to our lover