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Kids See, Kids Do – 11 Simple Tips For Adults !

You say you want to see your kids grow up to be kind, patient, forgiving,
self-sufficient and successful, but what if you’re doing it all wrong ?

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Here are 10 simple tips for you so you don’t unintentionally hinder your child’s success

#1
If you don’t want your kids to hurt others
Don’t show them how to do it.

#2
If you want your kids to be respectful
Show them what it feels like to be respected.

#3
If you don’t want your kids to lie to you
Don’t punish them for telling the truth.

#4
If you want your kids to be kind
Show them what kindness looks like.

#5
If you don’t want your kids to steal,
Don’t steal from them.

#6
If you want your kids to have self-esteem,
Don’t belittle them

#7
If you want your kids to be good people,
Be a good person yourself.

#8
If you don’t want your kids to hate
Show them unconditional love.

#9
If you want your kids to be compassionate
Show them how to be compassionate.

#10
If you want your kids to learn self-control
Take control of yourself.

#11
If you want your kids to enjoy their childhood,
Don’t expect them to act like adults.

If kids have known nothing but kindness, love, patience, understanding and forgiveness, they will grow to be kind, loving, patient, understanding and forgiving adults

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9 Responses to Kids See, Kids Do – 11 Simple Tips For Adults !

  1. dr.mamoun shalaby November 26, 2014 at 10:53 PM #

    couldn’t agree more

  2. kvkarunakaran October 15, 2014 at 1:39 PM #

    very good

  3. mad September 12, 2014 at 1:44 AM #

    Agree

  4. Stephen September 11, 2014 at 11:54 AM #

    I feel I should keep reading this as a Prayer daily, so I can correct myself if I am going wrong somewhere and applying the 10 beautiful tips for our childs future

    • Sana - Editor FFJ September 15, 2014 at 3:45 PM #

      It’s true that parents often forget these small things. May God make us conscious parents

  5. Yunus September 11, 2014 at 12:48 AM #

    If you want your child to be God-fearing, be pious yourself. If you want your child to observe salat, then observe the 5 daily prayers with them.

    Thanks and ALLAH less

    • Sana - Editor FFJ September 15, 2014 at 3:47 PM #

      Thank you very much for sharing them. Those are really important

  6. Shakil September 10, 2014 at 4:03 PM #

    Not so easy to implement at times.
    In real life situations things get out of hand.

    • Sana - Editor FFJ September 15, 2014 at 3:52 PM #

      They are easy only if parents remember them and are conscious all the time.