A young woman had a habit of spreading gossip about the people around her.
Once it so happened that she changed her house to a new locality, and started to gossip about her new neighbor. Within a few days the whole community knew about the story. Her neighbor was deeply hurt and offended.
A few days later the young woman learnt that what she had said was completely untrue.
She was very sorry and went to a learned Scholar to find out what she could do to repair the damage.
“Go to the marketplace,” he said,
“and purchase a chicken, and have it killed. Then on your way home, pluck its feathers and drop them one by one along the road.”
Although surprised by this advice, the woman did what she was told.
The next day the Scholar said, “Now go and collect all those feathers you dropped yesterday and bring them back to me.”
The woman followed the same road, but to her dismay, the wind had blown the feathers all away. After searching for hours, she returned with only three in her hand.
“You see,” said the learned Scholar, “it’s easy to drop them, but it’s impossible to get them back. So it is with gossip. It doesn’t take much to spread a rumor, but once you do, you can never completely undo the wrong.”
Don’t believe all thing do you hear it or read it without passing on your brain.
The offender should talk good of the offended and extol their good virtues. She should then engage in zikr and durud (eulogy) for the Holy Prophet to acquire enough reward to pay those wronged on the day of judgement.
exactly the answer. Allah bless you
NICE ONE THANKS FOR SHARING
it is an inspiring one but we need be careful of what we talk
moral kind story
At least she learned from her mistake, there are so many of us who choose to ignore the truth.
DON’T BELIEVE WHAT U ‘VENT SEEN U R OWN EYES………..!!!
very wise, I like your thoughtfulness at this age.
i get this story by email so many times but it never seems to get old
thx for the story!
and its women in general that spread rumours and gosspi and backbit and all that stuff….so no mater where were from it shouldnt be part of our habits
So True… Thanx for sharing….
Prophet Muhammad said: Say something Nice, or never say thing.
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Prophet Muhammad said: Say something Nice, or never say thing.
this is a bad habbit
but it is widespread
this is so true… and it’s so typically middle eastern people who spread gossip about people (especially about girls) without knowing whether it’s true or not.
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“A Muslim is a brother of another Muslim
so he should not oppress him, nor should he hand him over to an oppressor.
Whoever fulfilled the needs of his brother,
Allah will fulfill his needs
whoever brought his (Muslim) brother out of a discomfort
Allah will bring him out of the discomforts of the Day of Resurrection and
whoever screened a Muslim
Allah will screen him on the Day of Resurrection. “Bukhari Volume 3, Book 43, Number 622
Remember these words people…. and spread them!
thanks for sharing this story with us sara =)
Actually its not only in middle east.. Its happenin all over d world.. V must stay away 4m all des things…
yeah but it’s like, middle eastern people gossip about everything!
for example i went to the cinema with a friend once (a GIRL!)…. the next day people were saying that me and my friend were waiting for some guys and so on -.- and of course it wasn’t true! so people just try to make up stories if they can’t find anything to say……
off course it’s happening all over the world, but i feel like it’s just more widespread in the arab communities than between other people 😉
Ye that happened to me once too
That’s what i’m saying….. it’s just typically middle eastern people :/
Abier, thanks to share such a nice hadith,
ur welcome, it’s my obligation as a muslim 🙂
very nice hadith. Thanks for sharing Abier.
you’re welcome 🙂
Hi,Sara : I love this story it is unacceptable to talk badly behined any one .
One chicken is killed every time one reader reads the story… Replace that part with something else..
Come on LOL, you must be joking
🙂 . Wasif that’s so funny!! You have a good sense of humor.
Don’t cry over spilt milk .
Lovely!
Interesting and very logical
gossip and back-biting can never be retracted