My husband is a Businessman, I love him for his steady nature, and I love the warm feeling when I lean against his broad shoulders. But just after two years of marriage, I would have to admit, that I am tired of him. The reasons of me loving him before, has now transformed into the cause of all my restlessness. I am a sentimental woman and extremely sensitive when it comes to a relationship and my feelings. My husband, is my complete opposite, his lack of sensitivity, and the inability of bringing romantic moments into our marriage has disheartened me about love.
One day, I finally decided to tell him my decision, that I wanted a divorce.
“Why?” he asked, shocked. “I am tired, there are no reasons for everything in the world!” I answered. He kept silent the whole night, seems to be in deep thought.
My feeling of disappointment only increased, here was a man who can’t even express his predicament, what else can I hope from him? And finally he asked me:” What can I do to change your mind?” Somebody said it right, it’s hard to change a person’s personality, and I guess, I have started losing faith in him.
Looking deep into his eyes I slowly answered : “Here is the question, if you can answer and convince my heart, I will change my mind, Let’s say, I want a flower located on the face of a mountain cliff, and we both are sure that picking the flower will cause your death, will you do it for me?” He said :” I will give you the answer tomorrow….” My hopes just sank by listening to his response.
I woke up the next morning to find him gone, and saw a piece of paper with his scratchy handwriting, underneath a milk glass, on the dining table near the front door, that goes….
My dear, “I would not pick that flower for you, but please allow me to explain the reasons further..” This first line was already breaking my heart. I continued reading. “When you use the computer you always mess up the software programs, and you cry in front of the screen, I have to save my fingers so that I can help to restore the programs.
You always leave the house keys behind, thus I have to save my legs to rush home to open the door for you. You love traveling but always lose your way in a new city, I have to save my eyes to show you the way.
You always have the cramps whenever your “good friend” approaches every month, I have to save my palms so that I can calm the cramps in your tummy. You like to stay indoors, and I worry that you will be infected by infantile autism. I have to save my mouth to tell you jokes and stories to cure your boredom.
You always stare at the computer, and that will do nothing good for your eyes, I have to save my eyes so that when we grow old, I can help to clip your nails,and help to remove those annoying white hairs. So I can also hold your hand while strolling down the beach, as you enjoy the sunshine and the beautiful sand… and tell you the colour of flowers, just like the color of the glow on your young face…
Thus, my dear, unless I am sure that there is someone who loves you more than I do… I could not pick that flower yet, and die.. ”
My tears fell on the letter, and blurred the ink of his handwriting… and as I continue on reading…
“Now, that you have finished reading my answer, if you are satisfied, please open the front door for I am standing outside bringing your favorite bread and fresh milk…
I rush to pull open the door, and saw his anxious face, clutching tightly with his hands, the milk bottle and loaf of bread…. Now I am very sure that no one will ever love me as much as he does, and I have decided to leave the flower alone…
That’s life, and love. When one is surrounded by love, the feeling of excitement fades away, and one tends to ignore the true love that lies in between the peace and dullness.
Love shows up in all forms, even very small and cheeky forms, it has never been a model, it could be the most dull and boring form.. . flowers, and romantic moments are only used and appear on the surface of the relationship. Under all this, the pillar of true love stands and that’s our life. Love, not words win arguments.
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I love my wife from most inner part of my heart I cannot live without her,for she is my moon,my sun’and my guiding star which guides me when I face many obstacles of this world which we live in ‘and if there is a rare flower that only exist where humans do not dare to seek I will go and find and give it to her with sincere love and divinity
good story .if we arabs met this sitatiuon divorce ala tul ala tul
Yes your story is very good and very sentimental and i hope that all wives and husbands do what you had do.I do not think so because of the lack of civilisation especially in our arabic countries. Husbands do not listen to their wives and give them the posibility to demand the impossible mission for love only because they can have four wives .If one demamd the divorce another women is waiting to take her place.I am sorry for this response but its a part of our culture in the islamic law.We must and you must working hardly and deeply to change our mentality.
Be quiet and take it easy
I love my wife. If she ever reads my comment, I’d like to tell her “I love you. More than I can say in words. You’re my life, the reason of my happiness. I love you even after death does us apart. You are the one and only love of my life”. Sorry folks for posting this message as a comment, it’s just that I get too nervous saying some things.
I read your comment, Muhammad. I love you too! Very very much. And I can never think of anything that can separate us. We are one. I love you too.
Masha Allah. May Allah swt always shower His blessings on you and make your marriage a way for you and your family to enter Jannah Aameen ^_^
I love my wife very very much….
True to its name
Amazing!
really very nice and heart touching story.
thanks for sharing.
have a nice day.
Ingenious strategy to save his family as well as himself. Over time love takes several form to manifest itself. Often in so subtle a way that it becomes difficult to understand.The husband proved beyond all doubt he was sincere, loyal and responsible.